Friday, 6 June 2014

Chika Ike celebrates 3rd year anniversary as a businesswoman(Photos)


 The beautiful actress is celebrating the 3rd year anniversary as a business woman
Celebrating over three years in business. I had a private celebration organized by my team today.I have the best team ever, young,focused and hardworking. I'm blessed to have them.It's amazing how time flies,I can't believe that it's been over three years since I opened FANCY NANCY. Owning a business has taught me a lot about patience,tolerance,staying focused and never giving up..thanks to my loyal clients for their support through out the years and making FANCY NANCY aa success.I love you  #FancyNancy #TGIF
Nice shoes..More below

More photos of Miss Tourism Nigeria 2014, Collete Nwadike


Gorgeous Collete is the current Miss Tourism Nigeria World 2014. She won the pageant a few weeks ago. See more photos after the cut...

Days after signing deal with Apple, Dr Dre buys new house for $40m


Dr Dre is reported to have dropped a whooping $40million to buy the mega mansion of supermodel Gisele Bundchen and her quarterback husband, Tom Brady in Brentwood, California.
 
Dre, who recently signed a $3billion deal with Apple for his Beats Electronic company was the highest bidder for the house which has been on the market for about three months now.
The mansion, which is Eco-friendly, is made of two estates that collectively has 8 bedrooms, six garages and a moat. The main house alone is on almost 14,000 square feet with six bedrooms and nine bathrooms. It also has a professional grade home gym, an infinity pool, a waterfall and a motor court. See more photos after the cut...

TLC slam Rihanna for going naked + Rihanna replies


T-Boz and Chilli of TLC slammed Rihanna for going nude at the Council of Fashion Designers of AmericaAwards..Speaking on Channel 7's Sunrise in Sydney Australia,44 year old T-Boz said
Every time I see you you don't have to be naked.'It's easy to sell sex,'It's hard for us to say anything because any time we do, they say, 'Oh TLC must be jealous', but I call a spade a spade"
Chilli,43 added

18-year old girl survives being shot twice & thrown in a canal by her family for marrying man she loved(Photos)


Barely a month after a Pakistani woman was stoned to death by her family for marrying a man she loved, a teenager survived after she was shot twice and thrown in a canal by her family for marrying the man she loved.Saba Maqsood was attacked by her father, uncle, brother and aunt before she was tossed into the canal.
A police spokesman,Ali Akbar told Reuters
The victim, Saba ... married her neighbour Muhammad Qaiser for love five days ago against the wishes of her family.They took her to Hafizabad, shot her twice and threw her in the canal after putting her in a sack, presuming that she was dead.'Her relatives fled the scene,and after minutes in the water she regained consciousness and struggled to the bank, where passers-by helped her. She is a brave girl. She came out of the canal and approached a nearby fuel station from where a rescue team rushed her to hospital.
Mr Akbar said he had recorded a statement from Ms Maqsood in which she blamed her family for the attack...She said

Chris Brown pictured as Karrauche throws him a surprise party(Photos)

Since his release from jail, Chris Brown hasn't been seen..He looked really healthy and chubby as girlfriend,Karrauche,friends and family threw him a surprise party yesterday to welcome him home from Jail ,and also celebrate his birthday which he spent in Jail..

Many fans say he needs to lose weight..Who prefers his new look...


She Serious! Kim Kardashian adds "West"to her official signature(Photo)


Kim has decided to be with Kanye for better or worse.She didn't just add his last name on social media but now includes West in signature..She shared this photo taken during her honeymoon and wrote...
"We were in Prague and we signed plates for the restaurant. This is the 1st time I signed West!! Xo ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

Thursday, 5 June 2014

Five Tips to Turn Love Disappointments into Triumphs

lemons into lemonades


I was on the Today show doing a segment about how to turn love disappointments into victories.  Here are the five tips I was not able to give on air, the steps you can take that can help when things go south, especially in your dating or love life. Life almost always takes a left turn-it never seems to go the way we expect.  The One turns out to be a Dud, the chemistry dies off in your marriage, you get divorced and on and on.

Dating Games Men Play


dating games men play


Have you ever wondered about the dating games men play? Like these dating games?

How could he disappear so quickly after he came on so strong?  Why hasn’t he called?  Was he just into the sex?  How could he not see how great we are together?  Why doesn’t he make a date? Why did he put his profile back up?  Will this man ever commit?  What the heck is going on with him? Is it him? Or is it me?
Ah, men.  So confusing.

Love At First Sight: Does It Exist?

love at first sight
A recent study of dating behavior at the University of Pennsylvania reveals that people don’t need a lot of time with or information about a person to tell if they’re romantically interested. Sounds like love at first sight, right? Single people’s behavior suggests that individuals know “it” (a person who appeals to them or even love at first sight) when they see it—almost instantly.

Are Men Really After One Thing? Part 1


Are men really after one thing: sex? Commercials, ads, sitcoms, reality shows and popular magazines certainly tell us so. There are guys in beer commercials ogling babes. Characters in sitcoms that thrive on double entendre jokes showing they are always on the prowl to score. Steamy hot tub scenes and couples rushing into the bedroom on singles-themed reality shows. Newspapers and popular

5 Time Management Techniques Worth Using

5 Time Management Techniques Worth Using
Technique #1: Make and use lists. There is not a single time management discipline or system on earth that doesn’t revolve around making and using lists. You cannot carry it all in your head. For years, I’ve operated with four basic lists:
1. My Schedule. This is for the entire year, day by day.

Handling A Non-Committal Guy

Perhaps you feel you met the One. Yet he disappears soon after. Has he met someone else?  Why is he running hot and cold?  Do you have a future together?  You wonder, Is it me?  Is it him? Is this a non-committal guy and why do I mess with him?

  
Maybe you tend to be involved with a guy for a few months and then he always falls away mysteriously, leaving you alone.  Maybe you have been with a guy for 10 years who brings over the chicken soup when you are sick, is there whenever you need him, yet turns into a non-committal guy about building a lasting relationship.  Or maybe you are in a long term on-again, off-again relationship where one or the other of you periodically withdraws or sees other people. The whole thing can be very UNSETTLING and uncertain emotionally.  I know.

5 Ways to Decrease Interruptions and Increase Productivity

5 Ways to Decrease Interruptions and Increase Productivity
1. Get lost. Your first tactic—simple inaccessibility. Some entrepreneurs think they have to set a leadership example by being the first person there, to turn on the lights, and the last person to leave, to turn off the lights. Leadership is not about outworking everybody.
I learned by traveling that my people functioned just as well with me as an absentee leader as they did with me onsite. When I was on the road and inaccessible, they handled 80 percent of everything on their own, most of it satisfactorily. And they asked me about the other 20 percent quickly and efficiently.
Since that worked OK when it had to, I stopped going to the office. When I was in town, I worked at home largely uninterrupted. Dozens of clients have mimicked my practices and have been shocked by how much more productive they’ve become.
If you are going to be in your office with the rest of your staff, then it's important you have a closed-door policy. You need some times when everybody knows—because of the closed door, red light, stuffed purple dragon in the hallway, whatever—that you are 100 percent uninterruptible.
2. Don’t answer the phone. The phone is Peak Productivity Enemy Number One. People somehow think that they must respond to the phone when it rings and believe you should, too. But there’s nothing happening that can’t or won’t wait an hour or two.
Nobody should be wide open to inbound calls. If you take inbound calls as they come, you're constantly stopping work on a task of known priority in favor of something or someone of unknown priority. You're turning control of your day over to the unknown. And at the end of most days, you’ll be worn out, but you won’t have gotten to do most of the things you wanted to do.
If you buy into the strategy of limiting and controlling access, you'll need a good screening system. If you have a receptionist or secretary, that’s best. If not, use voice mail. Give your receptionist or secretary a continually updated VIP LIST of people from whom you'll take urgent incoming calls or be tracked down to return a call quickly. This prevents you from missing calls you really want, and it allows your assistant to screen all other calls with great confidence.
3. Get a grip on email, texts and faxes. What is the purpose of all this stuff—fax, email, texting, cell phone? You may think it’s supposed to make access to you by others easier, faster and cheaper. Not so. The only sane purpose is for this stuff to be used by you in a manner that improves your productivity and allows you to increase your income.
If you train your customers, associates, employees, vendors and others to communicate with you no more frequently than some agreed upon number of times per day or week with the expectation of a delayed response, that’s a huge productivity advantage. It ends phone tag, reduces your return call burden, gets information to you in a more organized way, and lets you deal with these in-bounds at your pace, in the priority you assign, as you see fit.
At the very least, prohibit texts. These are the worst of the hit ‘n run communications. People send texts like “Billings Corporation deal has come apart. Discuss when you can.” You come out of a meeting, arrive on the ground after a long flight, or are otherwise held back from seeing these and instantly responding in real time. You now get to worry and stew until you can get to the person.
Come to your own conclusions about it all—fax, email, text, cell phone. But be the master, not the slave.
4. Set the timer on the bomb. Almost 100 percent of my own phone calls occur by preset appointments with start and end times. But if you do take an incoming call, when you get on the phone with someone, it’s smart to set up the exit time first (I call this “setting the timer on the bomb”). For example, I would say:
Tom, I have a conference call starting in just 15 minutes, but I wanted to take your call—I hope that will be enough time for our discussion. Do you agree—or should we set up another
telephone appointment?
Tick, tick, tick.
When someone “drops in” and you decide to see them, it’s a smart idea to set up the exit time first:
Bob, it’s difficult these days for me to see drop-in visitors, but it’s good to see you. We’ll only have half an hour, though, as I have an important conference call set for 4:00 p.m. That’s OK, isn’t it?
Tick, tick, tick.
You may not win any awards for being sociable, but you’ll have shorter, more purposeful telephone conversations and meetings. Drop-ins will gradually get the message. Callers will gradually learn to call ahead and set up a phone appointment, or at least to prepare and be efficient when calling.
5. Be busy and be obvious about it. Obviously busy people are interrupted less than unbusy people. Just like burglars pass up some homes looking for the easiest, safest targets, those who steal time by interrupting others tend to cruise the office looking for the best opportunity and the easiest target. If you're sitting at your desk, appearing relaxed, you’re it. When you're visible to others, it’s best to be visibly busy. 

Rules of Relationships – Saying Thank You

expressing thanks to your partnerOne of the first things that we learn about manners when we are children is to say “thank you” when someone does something nice for us or gives us a compliment.  As adults we usually keep up this habit of saying thank you to casual acquaintances, but we often get a little lax with expressing gratitude to the people who are most important to us.  We’re usually good about saying thank you when we receive a compliment from our partner, but it’s easy to fall into a trap where we forget to say thank you for all the everyday nice things that they do for us.
Here are some basic rules for saying thank you to your partner.  I’ve also thrown in some of the common excuses that we use for not saying thank you when we should.  Here are some “thank you” tips to keep in mind, especially if you have been in a relationship for some length of time.

The Single Most Important Habit of Successful Entrepreneurs


In his book No B.S. Time Management for Entrepreneurs, business coach and consultant Dan Kennedy reveals the steps behind making the most of your frantic, time-pressured days so you can turn time into money. In this edited excerpt, the author describes the one habit you should adopt--and stick to without fail--if you want to be successful.

3 Tips for Newbie Entrepreneurs on Starting a Business

3 Tips for Newbie Entrepreneurs on Starting a Business
1. Write a business plan.
Some say you don’t need a business plan. I disagree. Instead, I highly recommend writing one. You don't know the unknowns until you try to answer all the questions that will come up when you are filling one out. You don't need to go out and buy expensive business plan software. There are plenty available to download for free. Just do a simple Google search to see what is available and choose a template that will suit your needs.

Need a Business Idea? Here are 20

Need a Business Idea? Here are 55
1. ACCOUNTANT
Experience, training or licensing may be needed
Create a flier outlining your services. Before you do that, you need to know what those services will be. Do you want to simply do bookkeeping for a small business? A more involved level of accounting would be do actually work up balance sheets, income statements, and other financial reports on a monthly, quarterly, and/or annual basis, depending on the needs of the business. Other specializations can include tax accounting, a huge area of potential work. Many business owners don't mind keeping their own day-to-day bookkeeping records but would rather get professional help with their taxes.

How to Become a Millionaire by Age 30

How to Become a Millionaire by Age 30
Here are the 10 steps that will guarantee you will become a millionaire by 30.
1. Follow the money. In today’s economic environment you cannot save your way to millionaire status. The first step is to focus on increasing your income in increments and repeating that. My income was $3,000 a month and nine years later it was $20,000 a month. Start following the money and it will force you to control revenue and see opportunities.

Pastor who quoted Chris Brown's"These Hoes Ain't Loyal"during Sermon defends himself


In a viral video,Pastor James Bryant of Empowerment Temple in Baltimore, shocked many when he quoted Chris Brown's "These hoes ain't Loyal" during a sermon days ago. Now, he is defending the use of that phrase.According to him, people heard 20 seconds of the video and he used the phrase in the right context in a 30 minute sermon titled ‘In My Enemies Worst Nightmare,’.

"Some artistes are leading false lives"-Baba Fryo


Before all the bling and artiste packaging we now have, there was Friday Igwe, popularly called Baba Fryo with his smash hit "Dem Go Dey Pose" .He seems to have gone underground but , he says he still performs regularly and the industry is growing but some artistes lead false lives ....He told punch
The music industry is growing bigger. But some of the artistes are leading false lives. We don’t also have record labels.I still perform regularly. Recently, I performed at a show tagged Warri Again which held in Delta State alongside Tuface, Flavour, Olamide, Helen Paul and others.In my forthcoming album, my fans and every Nigerian should expect to hear about love and unity and to shun the spirit of hatred and embrace love. Some of the tracks challenge people to be responsible, lead a good life and respect those who are in certain professions before them. They are also advised to learn to love the right wayI am not going to fold arms and not speak out. It is for this reason that I am producing an album titled, Little Love. With the 

Fab Couple! Beyonce & Jay Z step out amid new reports they are headed for divorce


 Since the elevator incident, many don't look at Beyonce/Jay Z relationship the same way. Everyone is trying to read their actions and it tells on them.They are no more acting all loved up like they used to.

She also seems to have ditched Julius, her favourite  bodyguard of over 5 years after reports that they were having an affair and Jay Z was jealous of their closeness (Here)..He is the same one who witnessed the elevator fight.

According to Intouch Magazine this week, Jay Z has been cheating on her...They wrote...

Mercy Aigbe all swagged up in ripped Jeans


Stunning woman..Who's feeling the look..

Meet the 31-year old boy toy & his 91-year old girlfriend who still have amazing Sex (Photos)


While some men prefer young girls with flawless figures,Kyle, from Augusta, Georgia, dates numerous pensioners at the same time and even takes them home to meet his 50-year-old mother. For the last five years he has been in a 'casual' relationship with 91-year-old Marjorie McCool.And despite the 60-year age gap, the pair have an active sex life and can't keep their hands off each other. 

Maheeda says Rihanna copied her "see-through sheer" look (Photo Evidence)

Photos: Comedian De Don shows off his family



Popular comedian, De-Don, who donated his kidney to save his elder brother, just released some new photos of himself and his family. Cute baby. See another photo after the cut...

Gwoza Christians release disturbing details about 6 girls kidnapped by BH is 2013


Found this report on Sahara Reporters...quite scary! Read below...
The Gwoza Christian Community Association in Borno State has released details of disturbing disclosures made by six Christian girls who were abducted in 2013 by the dreaded Boko Haram sect.
The girls were abducted last year from different locations in Gwoza local government area. Their statements revealed that, following their abduction, they were subjected to serial rapes by Boko Haram terrorists. In addition, they were turned into domestic slaves in various Boko Haram camps before they pulled off their daring and lucky escapes. Continue...

Ibinabo Fiberesima talks about that car accident she was involved in that left a man dead


For those who don't know the story, Ibinabo was involved in an accident many years ago in Lekki Lagos that left the driver of the car she hit, dead. She was arrested and charged but she's since settled with the court and the victim's family.

Tuesday, 3 June 2014

Avoiding The Trap: How To Stop Judging Yourself



Guest blogger Nate Bagley and Relationship Alphabet columnist Zach Brittle joined us last week to discuss the roles integrity and judgment play in healthy, supportive relationships. Getting a firm grip on integrity and judgment in the course of a single blog post can be a tricky operation, so this week we dig a little deeper!

As we burrow our way under these heavy concepts, we hope to hollow out a channel of understanding that you may follow to achieve long-lasting health and happiness. Spoiler alert: "[It] is a road, no simple highway — that path is for your steps alone!" Listening to the tune may help.

So let's begin with the familiar: Judgment of others usually comes from self-judgment. After all, who do we judge most often? Ourselves!

Led astray by a bombardment of misleading media messages, we often plummet down a crazy rabbit hole in which self-worth is based on external markers of achievement. We're taught to appraise ourselves and others based on recognizable status markers (degrees, promotions, fancy titles) and material possessions (classy clothes, cars, cosmetics, coffee-table books, castanets, capybaras, whatever).

It's too easy to be caught up, and we toil away endlessly, unquestioningly, jumping through hoops so that we may someday pass someone's examination and be judged worthy. For a tender and insightful treatment of the topic, see Yann Dall'Aglio's brilliant TED Talk, "Love - You're Doing It Wrong."

We are made to feel that we are what we own. Instead of turning towards each other for fulfillment, we turn towards comparisons, measurements, and scores.

We fear that we'll never be enough — strong enough, smart enough, pretty enough, thin enough, rich enough. We practice restriction and self control, suffering over and coveting stuff and status. We collect material proof of our worth, straining towards the perfect moment when we have enough to be adequate. In this moment, amid our dazzling array of beautiful things, our fantasy will be realized, we will finally be complete, and we will breathe easy.

The truth, as we know deep down, is that none of this lets anyone breathe easy — not even supermodels, geniuses, or the millionaires and billionaires with their gazillions of pounds of stuff. These are counterproductive distractions. Until we can find another way to see ourselves, we will be weighed down, and we will never be free.

Here's the thing, though — we can be free. We know what freedom feels like.

Let's do a simple mental exercise:

Take a moment now and think of the person — perhaps a sibling, a friend, or your significant other — that makes you feel deeply happy, someone in whose presence you feel most uninhibited, most able to truly be yourself.

Now think about the way you see yourself on a daily basis. What does your self-talk (inner dialogue) sound like? Is it different from the way this person talks to you? If they could hear the inside of your head, how would they respond? What would you say to a friend if you could hear them talking to themselves in this way?

Getting tripped up in the world of relationships can be a nasty side-effect of our skewed perspective. In a culture where possession of symbols and objects is used avoid pain, we are perversely taught to desire ownership of people: our partners. We want to own and be owned by them. "But come on, isn't this just a harmless romantic fantasy?" Not really. By viewing ourselves and others as property, we walk straight into one of the oldest and most dangerous traps in history. See Toni Morrison's artful depiction of it below, using the common case of the unhappy lover:

“You think because he doesn’t love you that you are worthless. You think that because he doesn’t want you anymore that he is right — that his judgment and opinion of you are correct. If he throws you out, then you are garbage. You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Don’t. It’s a bad word, ‘belong.’ Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn’t be like that. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can’t even see the mountain for the clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? His head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, because the clouds let him; they don’t wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can’t own a human being. You can’t lose what you don’t own. Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don’t, do you? And neither does he. You’re turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life, girl. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can’t value you more than you value yourself.”

Wow. Sound familiar? Interested in an alternative? You've probably figured it out by now...

Freedom comes in admitting what matters, and acting accordingly (that is to say, with integrity). It comes in admitting that self-satisfaction and connection are achieved not in the passionate accumulation of stuff but in seeing the world clearly: loving yourself and sharing love with those around you — not owning them, not being owned by them, not devoting every last bit of energy to self-assessment and the judgment of others — simply enjoying the joy of a shared existence. 

Billionaire businessman Femi Otedola makes $398million in 90 days


According to Forbes Africa, billionaire businessman Femi Otedola made $398million between March 3 to June 2. #Ojigbijigbijigbithings. Hehe. See their report below
Nigerian energy mogul Femi Otedola has become at least $398 million richer between March 3 and June 2 as shares of Forte Oil PLC, a Nigerian Stock Exchange-listed energy distributor, surged 167% in that period.
Forte Oil PLC is primarily engaged in the distribution of petroleum products such as diesel, aviation fuel and Premium Motor Spirit (PMS). The company has over 500 company-owned, dealer-assisted and dealer-developed gas stations spread across the country, oil storage depots in Lagos and Rivers states, a Power plant and a Joint User Hydrant Installation facility in Lagos. The company also sells its own range of automobile lubricants.
On March 3, the company’s stock was trading at N88.4 ($0.55), and at the close of trading today (Monday), its share price was N235.79 ($1.46). According to Akinbamidele Akintola, Vice President, Africa equity sales at Renaissance Capital, the recent unprecedented demand and surge in Forte Oil’s shares may not be unconnected to the company’s recent inclusion in the Morgan Stanley MS+0.13% Capital International (MSCI ) Frontier Market 100 Index. Listing in such indexes usually attracts interest from global investors who track these companies.

Otedola became the largest shareholder in Forte Oil (formerly called African Petroleum) in 2007 when he acquired a 28.7% stake in the company from the government-owned oil company, the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC) for $120 million. He subsequently appointed himself as chairman of the company. Otedola, 47, has gobbled up additional shares over the years and now owns more than 40% of the $1.5 billion (Market Capitalization) company. According to information available from registrar sources, he currently owns 436,809,537 shares valued at N103 billion ($635 million). He pocketed at least $11 million in dividends from profits made by his company in February as Forte Oil paid shareholders a dividend of N4 ($0.0023) per ordinary share from its 2013 profits. A representative for Femi Otedola could not be reached for comment at press time.

Source: Forbes 

New CBN Governor Godwin Emefiele assumes office today


Former Group Managing Director of Zenith Bank, Godwin Emefiele today June 3rd assumed office as the new Central Bank Governor. Mr Emefiele was chosen by President Jonathan to replace Sanusi.

In a brief handing over ceremony at the CBN Headquarters in Abuja, Emefiele took over the reigns of the CBN from the acting governor, Sarah Alade. 
 
Godwin Emefiele has a Bachelor of Science degree and an MBA in Finance both from the University of Nigeria, Nsukka. He has over 26 years banking experience.

Meet the Five Richest Kings in Africa, two of them are Nigerians


Forbes Africa just released their list of the richest Kings in Africa and two Nigerian monarchs make the list - at No.2 and No.3. See the list below...

1. King Mohammed VI, Morocco
Estimated net worth: $2 billion 
Source: Investments 

2. Oba Obateru Akinrutan, Ugbo Land, Nigeria (pictured left)
Estimated net worth: $300 million
Source: Oil

3. Oba Okunade Sijuwade, Ile-Ife, Nigeria (pictured right)
Estimated net worth: At least $75 million Source: Construction, Property, Oil 


4. King Mswati III, Swaziland
Estimated net worth: At least $50 million
Source: Investments 

5. Otumfuo Osei Tutu II, Ashanti, Ghana
Estimated net worth: $10 million
Source: Mining Equipment, Property, Jewelry