How to get your husband to love kissing

Please how can i get my husband to love kissing and engage in it. I love kissing and its one thing that turns me on for love making. I practically compels him to kiss me every time and we only manage to lip-lock for about 30 secs or less. We've talked about it several times through the years( been married for 11+ yrs) and no improvement. No amount of touching lubricates me like kissing.

Once in a while he succumbs, and it brings me on and we have a very good love making. Can i really do anything about it or is it absolutely an african thing of our men not liking kissing? Am talking about kissing in the privacy of our room. Thanks


>>>This request came in on the Is it our culture to kiss post, and Hannah gave such a fantastic response that I just had to publish here too. Please read on and share your own tips and suggestions too.

It's not an African man thing, especially in this generation, like Myne said. I think it's now more of an individual thing. Personally, although I love kissing, I'm not a great fan of PDA, but since my husband is, I've learnt to kiss in public and block out everyone else. I think he's toned it down a bit, too, so it's more of a win-win thing. However, I did witness my parents kiss on a couple of occasions, especially after periods of absence like a trip or something, and it was a chaste peck on the lips, no lip-locking.

Fastforward a few years after my mom's death, and I was witnessing my dad remarrying a much younger woman. It wasn't written into the programme, but she reminded the officiating minister about the "You may kiss the bride" part. Honestly, the kiss was the motor-rotor type- even I wanted to sink through the floor in embarrassment! And my dad is a clergyman, so you can imagine the. That kiss put even laymen to shame. I think she would have gone on, but if I remember rightly, he was the one who pushed her away gently. Whew! Well, I guess that was when I knew that he had it in him...and I guess the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree, heh-heh. :)

If you've talked to your husband again and again, I don't know what else you can do...except to keep emphasizing it. I also think you should initiate kissing outside the bedroom. If he's made to see how important it is to you, there's hope! I believe he's a reasonable man and he'll come around.

This response is so on point. Initiating the kissing outside the bedroom and outside the context of sex. Let it be one of your habits, a peck here, a peck there, and he'll become more used to it. Also, she should ask her husband HOW he wants to be kissed, maybe he prefers it soft, with little nips and sucks, rather than aggressive or vice versa. 

What do you think?

15 facts you must know about the penis

For all the attention they direct below the belt, most men actually know very little about their penises. Here's the knowledge you need to keep yours healthy, strong, and ready for action, for life.

Fact #1: Smoking can shorten your penis by as much as a centimeter. Erections are all about good bloodflow, and lighting up calcifies blood vessels, stifling erectile circulation. So even if you don't care all that much about your lungs or dying young, spare the little guy.

Fact #2: Doctors can now grow skin for burn victims using the foreskins of circumcised infants. One foreskin can produce 23,000 square meters, which would be enough to tarp every Major League infield with human flesh.

Fact #3: An enlarged prostate gland can cause both erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. If you have an unexplained case of either, your doctor's looking forward to checking your prostate. Even if you're not.

Fact #4: The average male orgasm lasts 6 seconds. Women get 23 seconds. Which means if women were really interested in equality, they'd make sure men have four orgasms for every one of theirs.

Fact #5: The oldest known species with a penis is a hard-shelled sea creature called Colymbosathon ecplecticos. That's Greek for "amazing swimmer with large penis." Which officially supplants Buck Naked as the best porn name, ever.

Fact #6: Circumcised foreskin can be reconstructed. Movable skin on the shaft of the penis is pulled toward the tip and set in place with tape. Later, doctors apply plastic rings, caps, and weights. Years can pass until complete coverage is attained.

Fact #7: Only one man in 400 is flexible enough to give himself oral pleasure. It's estimated, however, that all 400 have given it their best shot at some point.

Fact #8: There are two types of penises. One kind expands and lengthens when becoming erect (a grower). The other appears big most of the time, but doesn't get much bigger after achieving erection (a shower).

Fact #9: An international Men's Health survey reports that 79 percent of men have growers, 21 percent have showers.

Fact #10: German researchers say the average intercourse lasts 2 minutes, 50 seconds, yet women perceive it as lasting 5 minutes, 30 seconds.

Fact #11: Turns out size does matter: The longer your penis, the better "semen displacement" you'll achieve when having sex with a woman flush with competing sperm. That's according to researchers at the State University of New York, who used artificial phalluses (ahem) to test the "scooping" mechanism of the penis's coronal ridge.

Fact #12: The penis that's been enjoyed by the most women could be that of King Fatefehi of Tonga, who supposedly deflowered 37,800 women between the years 1770 and 1784—that's about seven virgins a day.

Fact #13: Better-looking men may have stronger sperm. Spanish researchers showed women photos of guys who had good, average, and lousy sperm—and told them to pick the handsomest men. The women chose the best sperm producers most often.

Fact #14: No brain is necessary for ejaculation. That order comes from the spinal cord. Finding a living vessel for said ejaculation, however, takes hours of careful thought and, often, considerable amounts of alcohol.

Fact #15: The most common cause of penile rupture: vigorous masturbation. Some risks are just not worth taking

Nicki Minaj says she almost died last week...and blames TMZ

During her acceptance speech for Best Female Rapper at the BET Awards on Sunday night, Nicki Minaj revealed she almost died last week but she was afraid to call an ambulance because she didn't want it to end up on TMZ. Nicki made the shocking admission on stage, explaining;

"The other day, literally I didn't tell anybody this, I really thought I was about to die. Like, I was saying my prayers to die. And I didn't even want to call the ambulance because I thought, 'Well if I call the ambulance, it's going to be on TMZ.'

"I would rather sit there and die. And it made me realize I don't care what anybody got to say. I'm going to do me."

You don't care what people say, but you would rather die at home than call an ambulance so no one sells the tape to TMZ? Wow!!! Meanwhile MTO claims the problem that nearly killed Nicki was 'weed overdose'. See their report after the cut..

From MediaTakeOut.com

So WHAT EXACTLY HAPPENED that made Nicki Minaj almost "die". Well we spoke to our OFFICIAL YOUNG MONEY SPY - who told us that Nicki thought that she may have suffered from a WEED OVERDOSE. LOL.

Yes, this is 100% FACTS here . . . a "WEED" overdose. According to MediaTakeOut.com snitch, Nicki was in the studio with Lil Wayne, and a BUNCH OF HIS CREW - and they were smoking tons of weed, and possibly OTHER SUBSTANCES. Nicki Minaj does NOT smoke weed, but she usually ALLOWS people to smoke around her when in the studio.

The insider told MediaTakeOut.com, "These [guys] went overboard with it though. They kept smoking and smoking, till the whole BUILDING was full of weed smoke." Nicki, we're told LEFT THE STUDIO, after she believed that she was getting a CONTACT HIGH.

When she arrived home, Nicki began having PALPITATIONS and difficulty breathing. She thought she was dying, but did NOT call for emergency help. Eventually the feeling passed . . . and she had THE MUNCHIES.

So there you have it . . . Nicki Minaj almost DIED off a CONTACT HIGH. She is so dang DRAMATIC with it . .. that's why we LOVE HER SO

Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU) accepting applications into its eLearning programme

Have you been seeking admission to the university year-in year-out without luck? Do you desire to further your education but cannot because of your demanding job? 

Are you fresh out of secondary school and you’re worried about the ease of gaining admission into the university? We have the answer for you! ... OAU eLearning degree programs!!! Continue...

The 1^stever robust eLearning program in Nigeria has started at Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife…Yes, Great IFE itself! Now with a JAMB score of 180 or with the relevant Direct Entry qualifications, you can gain admission into OAU. The programme also allows you to learn and study at your convenience, at any time and from any location in the world! What’s more? It’s the same OAU lecturers, same curriculum, same program duration and…wait for it… same DEGREE!

What is eLearning all about?

eLearning is learning conducted through electronic media, such as laptops, tablet devices and mobile phones, typically over the internet. With eLearning, learning has moved beyond the 4 walls of the classroom to your home, office, car and any location you may be.

Who is eLearning for?

One word…YOU! Check it out at online.oaucdl.edu.ng.

What courses are currently Available?

1. B.Sc. Accounting

2. B.Sc. Nursing

3. B.Ed. Social Studies Education

4. B.Ed. Economics Education

Programs coming soon include the following: Masters in Public Health (MPH), Executive Masters in Information Technology (EMIT) and B.Sc. Economics.

About OAU eLearning Program

OAU, one of the top 3 and highly regarded universities in Nigeria, is currently accepting applications for its eLearning programs.

The admission process is fully electronic and is done on the website, from application to payment to course registration to lectures. You do not have to submit physical forms or cash, everything can be done on the website. It is the eLearning Revolution, where learning is brought to the comfort of your room or office space.

After registration, each student will be provided with a tablet device to allow them watch lecture videos,take quizzes, submit assignments, interact with their lecturers and classmates, download and upload assignments, and have access to an endless collection of books from the e-Library.

The tablets have incredible battery power and are designed to allow access to lectures with or without internet availability so that no matter where you are, LEARNING NEVER STOPS!

For more details visit http://online.oaucdl.edu.ngOR CALL 01-342-9303

Application Deadline

Application is strictly online and closes on the 31^stof July, 2014. Classes will commence in September, 2014. Every second counts!

How to apply…Simply visit: ONLINE.OAUCDL.EDU.NG.

Sign up - confirm your email- login- start new application - make payment- fill your application form- upload attachments - ensure you confirm all entries - submit.

A simple 8-step procedure to follow for application is shown below:

Admission letters will be sent to your email address as soon as your records are verified.

Every information you need to apply, register and make payments for the program can be found on OAU’s eLearning website – online.oaucdl.edu.ng.

So, now you can gain that admission you have longed for this year. Now you can study and work at the same time….

Hurry now and apply on online.oaucdl.edu.ng and join the e-Revolutio

Man stabs himself to death after fiancee dumped him in Ogun (Photo)

Tragedy struck at the Onikolobo area of Abeokuta, Ogun State on Saturday when a 33-year-old man, Oluwatosin Otaiku, stabbed himself to death after his fiancee, Olaogun Oluwatoyin, discontinued the relationship.According to Punch ,after the girlfriend made a U-turn, the deceased was said to have become worried, and this made neighbours, who were aware of the development, to intervene. Efforts were made to reconcile them. An eyewitness said the duo was invited to discuss in privacy inside a shop at Safari junction in Onikolobo.Otaiku was said to have hid a knife in his pocket, prepared to end it all if there was no truce.

It was further gathered that Olaogun stood her ground and maintained that she could not continue with the relationship.On hearing this unfavourable verdict, the deceased reportedly brought out the knife from his pocket which made Olaogun to run out of the shop, thinking she was the target.

Olaogun was said to have immediately alerted neighbours who rushed into the shop and met the deceased stabbing himself.He was said to have been rushed to the Mercy Hospital in the Panseke area of Abeokuta

"Half of the Super Eagles team have 'chopped & Dumped you'"- Cossy slams Ebube Nwagbo

Cossy Orjiakor has fired back at Ebube Nwagbo for the tweet she posted yesterday. Ebube threw shade at ladies who stripped to support the Eagles and Cossy decided to go in on her...

See Cossy's reply below

Kim K steps out without an ounce of makeup

 Kim is always looking glamorous but she decided to go without makeup during a trip to the gym with Khloe..However, her butt keeps making tongues wag..
Though her face looks puffy, she is still a natural beauty

Kelly Osbourne tattoos her head(Photos)

 Fashion Police star,Kelly Osborne who earlier said she was removing most of her tattoos because they didn't make sense,shocked fans by not tattooing her skin but the side of her head with an inscription"Stories"..She posted the photos on her instagram page and captioned one "Opps what did I do"?

Majority of fans blasted her some saying she must be drunk, sick or needed to have tattooed stupid instead of stories...

She must be going through a phase..Recently, she has been very unlucky with love...That looks painful.....