I have heard and read different stories about Fela buy this one... Oh
wow this woman i dont know what to even say about her, after fleeing
from home at a tender age of 16 to be with fela you end up in a mass
wedding between you, the man you love who isnt the father of your baby
and 26 other women.
Read more when you continue:
One
of the wives of the late Afrobeat legend, Fela Anikulapo-Kuti, Laide
Anikulapo-Kuti, Nee Babayale, has revealed some shocking details about
the late legend. Though the interview was months back, I found it now
and it's so revealing. If you haven't read it before, read it now. It
was actually a video interview with Trumpet Media Group, but you can
read the transcribed version after the cut.
How did you meet Fela?
How did you meet Fela?
I
met Fela at a Sunday Jump in 1974. The shrine was opposite my house and
some of my friends were selling things in front of the place, and we
were just there doing our own thing, while Baba was inside doing his own
thing as usual. It was the boys that made us know him well. They came
to buy cigarettes from my friends, and wanted to take candy sweets for
free, and I was a kind of person that would never allow anybody take me
or the people around me for a ride. I protested, and the next thing I
knew, was that a hot slap landed on the cheek of my friend selling the
goods, and that's how we started fighting, that Fela had to come out. We
narrated what happened to him, so Fela took the boy that slapped my
friend inside and punished him. After that, Fela sent one of his drivers
to me that if I'm chanced, I should come and see him.
Initially,
I didn't want to go in, because my people must not see me in that kind
of environment. I was 16 years old as at then but I had a big stature.
When I got in, Fela said I should follow any of the cars to his house,
but I didn't go. That was how I knew Fela liked me, and I liked him too,
so every Sunday jump, I was always going there, well-dressed. Whenever
he was going in, he always looked in our direction. However, to cut the
long story short, we eventually began dating.
What was your parent's reaction when they knew you were in Kalakuta?
It
was a tug-of war. My father never wanted it, because he thought people
who were around Fela were hooligans, but it was a lie. Anybody who was a
hooligan then was either a passer-by, or just a shrine-goer, and not
part of Fela's inner caucus, because Fela never wanted trouble from any
of his people. Fela fought with his music, but when people heard the
lyrics of his songs, they thought he was a hooligan, which he was not. I
was actually on break from school for two weeks when I decided to go
and spend some time with Fela, but when I got there, I really enjoyed
myself and didn't want to go back to school again though I was in Form
Four then. My parents went looking for me in school, but the Reverend
mothers and sisters there then said they didn't know my whereabouts even
though all my properties were still in the hostel. They began searching
everywhere, but they never thought I could be in Fela's place. It was
actually Fela's friend, who happened to be my in-law, Uncle Tayo Mott,
that informed my parents that I was with Fela. He was a very close
friend to Fela and was also his DJ.
What were the actions your father took?
He
was always coming to harass us wherever we went. He would send boys
from Shitta, Surulere, to bundle me up wherever I was, and they would
carry me. My father was a prominent, well-known and outgoing person, so
he knew people like King Sunny Ade, Ebenezer Obey, and IK Dairo very
well, so he begged the three of them to go and plead with Fela to
release his daughter. On that fateful day when they came, I was in
Fela's room, and we had just finished doing our 'thing.' When Fela was
informed that the three men were there to see him, he went out, and
later sent for me that I should dress up and come out. When I went out,
he sat me down, and asked me if I knew the three men, and I replied in
the affirmative. He asked me if I knew why they were there, and I
replied that I didn't, so he told me they were there because of me. I
said why, and asked them if they knew me, but Fela calmed me down, that
they were sent by my father to beg me to come back home. I then told
them that there was nothing happening there that they didn't know about
because they were also in the music industry. I told them I was enjoying
Fela's music and didn't want to go home.
Can you recollect what happened when Kalakuta Republic was invaded?
It
started like a joke, but quickly escalated into war. Some traffic
police officers 'Yellow Fever' came and said they wanted to see the
person who drove a Range Rover that was in the compound because it had
even numbers on its license plate, even though it was odd numbers. The
gateman then told them that he was not in the best position to answer
them, because as someone that wasn't learned, he didn't know the
difference between odd and even numbers. The gateman then went inside to
inform Fela, and he told them that he wasn't coming out. The Yellow
Fever officers then went and came back with some soldiers because we
were very near Abati Barracks then. When Fela was informed that there
were soldiers outside, he first went into his mother's room, because he
never went out without seeing her. Beko was already in the clinic then,
but when he saw what was going on, he also came into mama's room. Before
we knew what was happening, the whole thing degenerated into chaos.
How did the issue of the mass marriage come about?
When
Kalakuta Republic was invaded and we all had different injuries, mine
was on my navel, and all the other women making jest of me that I would
never have a baby, even though I was just about 20 years old then. I
really wanted to have children because of the special treatment Fela
gave his children. I then decided to look outside because Fela didn't
want to have any more children then. He went to one Baba JK in Idi Oro
in Mushin to make his sperm watery. He was always drinking African
medicine there, and that was what neutralized his sperm. So many women
were always getting pregnant for him that he was terminating about six
different pregnancies per day. It was Dr. Beko Ransome-Kuti that used to
terminate it then. They're all dead now; me too, I'm going to die one
day, but it's always good to put things right for the records. There was
another girl then who I was close with, Adunni, so I told her that we
should look for people who we would have children for. She had a baby
for a taxi driver, while I had my baby for a journalist, Steve, with
Punch Newspapers. He usually reported whatever activity Fela was
involved in all round the world. He was the kind of person I needed at
that time. There was a time we were in Ghana in Hotel Presidential, and
that was the time I went in with him. Shortly after that, I started
experiencing morning sickness, and when it was confirmed that I was
pregnant, I was very happy.
Soon
after that, Fela called me to go in with him, and I told him that I was
pregnant. He said, 'What' and I repeated it. He came from the third
floor to the first floor to Mama's room, and he told her, "Maami, you
know what, Laide is pregnant.' Mama asked him who was responsible, and
he told her he was the one to cover me up. Mama then said 'Fine' because
she knew Fela liked me and I liked Fela. Mama never knew that I had
intercourse with Steve, even though his room was directly opposite
mama's own in Ghana. This is a true life story. I want you to bring it
out and let people know.
After
that time, Fela now called Steve and the press that 'these women have
suffered a lot with me, so if anyone of them wants, they can marry me
and be having children.' Steve said if that was what he wanted, then, no
problem. So Fela put out a notebook and said that the people who want
to marry him out of all the women in the shrine should put their names
down. In all, we were 27 that wrote our names, and Fela told the rest
that if they didn't write their names, he wouldn't sleep with them.
On
the day of the wedding ceremony, Fela's best pal, Tunji Braithwaite,
who was supposed to join us together, ran away from his chambers, saying
that he had never seen such a thing before for a man to marry 27 women
at the same time. He had thought it was a joke when Fela told him
earlier. The following day, Fela called an Ifa priest and they came to
join us together at Hotel Parisona in Anthony, Lagos. Fela put money on
everybody's heads and we collected our certificates of marriage to him.
Can you describe how it felt like being with him?
Fela
was a true living legend. He was the one and only man that God put in
our midst, but people never knew his worth until he was gone. Fela was
always chewing music in his mouth whatever he was doing. Whether he was
eating, driving, or with a woman in the room, he was always chewing
music in his mouth with his pen and paper with him always. He was very
good at writing in short-hand; in fact he was good at everything you can
ever think of. There was nothing he did wrong; except you didn't know
him. He was a messiah; if we had given him a chance, Nigeria would have
changed, but people like Obasanjo never gave him a chance.
Whenever Fela wanted to make music, he sang about the things around him.
Talking about bedroom matters, how did Fela rotate between his numerous wives?
Fela
always called his wives based on how he enjoyed them; if he did not
enjoy you, he would not call you. Even after the marriage, it continued
like that.
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